Erika Girardi’s husbandTom Girardihas responded to herdivorce filing.

The documents, filed Nov. 25 in Los Angeles Superior Court, list their date of separation as “[to be determined]” and cite “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for the split.

Reps for Tom and Erika did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment.

She is seeking spousal support from Tom, having herself requested to terminate the court’s ability to award spousal support to her ex, and that he cover attorney’s fees and costs.

Erika Girardi and Tom Girardi.Steve Eichner/AP

Erika Jayne, Tom Girardi

“It is my absolute wish to proceed through this process with respect and with the privacy that both Tom and I deserved,” she added. “I request others give us that privacy as well.”

Erika and Tom Girardi.Bravo

Erika and Tom Girardi

In 2017, Erika revealed during an appearance onAndy Cohen’s Then & Nowthat she and Tom, 81,do not have a prenuptial agreement in place.

“But let me tell you something, let me be very clear. I’m married to a very powerful lawyer,” she said of Tom, who worked on the landmark case that inspired the filmErin Brokovich.“A prenup wouldn’t stand in his way anyway. So it doesn’t matter whether you had one or you didn’t, it’s going to be all Tom’s way, I assure you. He’ll rip that piece of paper to shreds in two seconds!”

“Tom has resorted to embezzling the proceeds of settlements that should have been directed to his clients — including, as the basis for this Complaint, the widows and orphans who lost loved ones in the tragic crash of Lion Air Flight 610 — in order to continue funding his and Erika’s lavish Beverly Hills lifestyles,” the documents state.

Edelson PC and Erika declined to comment on the case, and Tom has not responded to PEOPLE’s request for comment.

source: people.com